A person is more than the mere role they play in our lives

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Pedestals are meant for fans, not people. Life would be so much easier if we just stopped putting people on pedestals. 

"He is a father, he can't be doing that" or "She is a wife, she is not supposed to do that" - We have all thought about it at some point in time. But it becomes a whole lot easier if we could detach them from the roles they play in our lives and see them as just another man or a woman, another human being or another soul, on a journey. On a journey that is his or her own, entirely. 

S/He is supposed to slip, here and there. S/He is supposed to choose, wrong or right. S/He is allowed to mistakes as long as s/he is learning from them. All these learnings will shape her/him up for the person he was always meant to be. Guide. Support. Accept. Reject. Embrace. Be kind. Be an empath. Be a contributor/part of his/her journey. But don't judge or generalize or rationalize. Life is no one-size-fits-all. Because one is on a journey, that is entirely one's own! 😇

 

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